It has been quiet this past week, nursing a poorly back and adding new items to the website have been most of its activities. The site is developing and in need of my new range of modular-shelving. There will be more about this when I get hold of my prototype, so, stay tuned for that.
This post is all about caring (in some ways, it's about NOT caring, too.) Being happy can be difficult, and the whole aim of HappyShelfCo. is to develop ways of achieving it, everywhere! We are harassed all day long, looking at Social Media and even listening to critique from people round us, but, we are blessed with our happy-spaces.
My idea is based around the fact that many people don't care about other people's problems, and short of professional help, we need to step back and hug ourselves. Those friends that stay close are a gem to behold, and are great for those 'comforting' needs. Others are quite simply baggage, sadly. There is nothing worse than the title message, 'Get over it!'. It can often be heard by some of the people that are closest to you, it's a sad fact that can take its toll on that already-dwindling mental-health.
I implore anybody that is suffering to seek advice and create a happy-place. My biggest tip is to look for the 'silver-lining'. Everything has one! Sometimes it can be the only thing that keeps us on track. I say this with the upmost respect for anyone who has suffered and is fighting it successfully. I will discuss my story in course and offer it as a signpost for you, should you need it.
Don't be afraid, and be proud when you fight those demons, you're stronger than you give yourself credit for and I badly want you to succeed. I use the word 'succeed' quite liberally here, it is meant as a statement, not a goal. Success is in your own eyes, what is a success to one, is likely to be the worst thing for another. Take your own success, and use it to grow, not end!
As for getting over it, it is never a point that should be made, if you are the person that says this, wake up, we are battling all of the time and don't need you to take a quick stab, too.
So, HAPPY is important! Relish the space; relish the 'feel'. Look out for this in new listings, 'feeling' is an important part of being happy, holding an item can mean the difference in how you are. An example is that moment on the beech when feeling the sand on your feet changes the day, altogether.
Just a quick one today, it was a rant, really. What do you think? Sometimes we need to air these issues, and being a part of HappyShelfCo. drives my need to help and offer a smile when there is nothing else left. Be happy, stay interesting.
The final word for today: DON'T 'GET OVER IT',
GROW INSTEAD!